Attitudes in Dealing with Stress
Negative |
Positive |
Avoid the problem, tell lies, shift the responsibilities to the others |
Face the problem directly |
Exaggerate the problem |
Analyse the center of the problem |
Overestimate the problem, and perceive it as unsolvable |
Deal with the problems calmly, relax oneself at the same time |
Focus on the possibilities of failure |
Focus on the possibilities of success |
Fight against the problem, full of aggression, take flight, seek for temporary release
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Solve the problem using the socially acceptable methods
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Pessimistic, consider that fate takes control of everything |
Optimistic, control one's own life |
Defend one's own behavior or shift the responsibilities to others |
Responsible for one's own behavior |
Deny the presence of stress and the necessity to deal with it |
Seek for possible solutions |
Follow 'old methods' to solve problem |
Use new methods to solve problem |
Face the problem alone |
Seek for help |
Being trapped by the problem |
Overcome barriers |
Tolerate the pain and let it be |
Replenish oneself and re-arrange one's resources |
Depressed due to failure |
Learn from failure, and try to put in more effort |
Smoking, drinking, drug abuse |
Do more exercise and take more rest |